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Tue, Sep. 8th, 2009, 02:40 am
WTF of the day

a movie about a man living in the midst of tel-aviv, who has (at least) 32 wives and 89 children and the authorities are unable to do anything about it.

W.T.F?!

Wed, Sep. 9th, 2009 12:19 am (UTC)
mme_n_b

As Tonto said to the Lone Ranger - who's "we", paleface? ;)))))
Generally, our opinions are very close, except that I don't even disapprove. It's weird, it's not my cup of tea, but as long as it makes them happy...

Wed, Sep. 9th, 2009 08:29 am (UTC)
lotus82

Well, there are advantages in the way those women are living. Remember how this one wife said that in a polygamous family, there's no such thing as a woman alone, when she gets older? Those women always have company and they are very well organized as far as taking care of children and the house goes. If someone gets sick, she doesn't need to worry that her kids will be unfed, you know?
It's just that some moments there are very unhealthy and honestly, if my daughter wanted to be one of his wives, I would not be happy about her choice.

Wed, Sep. 9th, 2009 03:01 pm (UTC)
mme_n_b

I suspect that in this particular polygamous family an elderly wife would be kicked out, but never mind my suspicions. I don't know what you mean by "unhealthy", it's obviously better for them than being on their own, which matches up with my definition of "healthy". Given that, if my daughter wanted to became one of these wives I would also be unhappy. And probably ashamed.

Wed, Sep. 9th, 2009 03:20 pm (UTC)
lotus82

That's interesting - why do you think the elderly wife would be kicked out?
[Not arguing - it's totally plausible - it's just that I haven't thought of it, so I'm interested.]

Wed, Sep. 9th, 2009 03:25 pm (UTC)
mme_n_b

Because he claimed not to know the name of one of his wives. That tells me he doesn't care about them all that much. And if he doesn't, and they loose their attractiveness and their income generating abilities (the single mother subsidy only lasts for a few years, right? once the children grow up it's gone), I just see no motivation for him to keep them around.

Wed, Sep. 9th, 2009 03:29 pm (UTC)
lotus82

Oh. I thought you meant that once he's dead, the remaining wives would be kicking out the elderly ones.

Wed, Sep. 9th, 2009 04:03 pm (UTC)
mme_n_b

No, I think once he's dead half of them will try to commit suttee.

Wed, Sep. 9th, 2009 04:21 pm (UTC)
lotus82

Yeah, that's pretty obvious.